When I graduated high school my church gave me a small volume written by Amy Carmichael entitled, Calvary Love. This past week we talked about Amy in my World History Class. She was a well-known missionary to India in the 19th century. I dug out that old volume and began reviewing it and came across this gem--"If I say, 'Yes, I forgive, but I cannot forget,' as though the God who twice a day washes all the sands on all the shores of all the world, could not wash such memories from my mind, then I know nothing of Calvary Love." Wow! You know, it may be natural to say "I can forgive, but I can't forget," but that's the problem. It's the most natural response we can expect. But not supernatural. That natural response can also result in tragic consequences for my spiritual life. Refusing to forgive AND forget leads to monuments of spite. How many churches split and then spin off into another direction, fractured, splintered, and blindly opinionated? I recall the sign on the church, THE ORIGINAL CHURCH OF GOD, NUMBER TWO. That speaks volumes!! When I say, "Well, OK you're forgiven, but don't expect me to forget it," then I have erected a monument of spite, and that really isn't forgiveness at all. Servants of God are called to be BIG people. Big enough to go on, remembering the right and forgetting the wrong. Forgetting an offense means being, in the true and noble sense of the term, SELF-FORGETFUL.